How a child with severe behavioral problems, a diagnosed ODD, and uncontrollable anger outbursts will become
a child with self-discipline, who is happy and full of energy.
But before we explain how to perform this miracle, I want to start with a quote from a mother who contacted me about her son's severe behavioral disorder, who also received the unflattering label of ODD.
"I tried everything the experts told me. Every time he had an outburst, I gave him an enveloping hug, a tight hug, and told him I love him. I explained to him why it only hurts him. We took him for diagnoses, emotional therapies, and we also went through parent guidance and what not. So what are you going to tell me? Basically, only medication helps. And that's it."
Yes. I have met many desperate parents who, with great pain, had to give their child strong psychiatric medications just so he wouldn't destroy the house with a rampant outburst of anger. When they came to us, they were convinced that something was not normal with their child. Outwardly, it really seems that the child has some kind of disorder, or as it is called, oppositional defiant disorder (ODD).
I have met parents who, due to their child's severe behavioral problems and repeated anger outbursts, even had to hospitalize him.
But I am happy to inform you that there is another option. There is another way to stop your child's outbursts. There is another way in which a child diagnosed with ODD will become an active, energetic child with self-discipline.
Elisheva, take me to the videos
Here are a few sentences my clients used to say before we met
- I feel like we've reached the edge. If I don't stop this now, this child will destroy our whole house.
- My daughter is a lost cause. I took my daughter to every possible therapist. She had all the diagnoses, we went through parent guidance. Nothing helped. What could you possibly offer me?
- When she decides something, she gets what she wants. She terrorizes our home. I am helpless against her.
- Our child broke everything in the house. Doors, closets, glassware. Everything is ruined. All the professionals recommend hospitalizing him quickly, otherwise his condition will worsen.
There is a solution
And it is here, within your reach, in a series of videos where I give all my experience and knowledge. Experience with which I have helped many people free their child from the label of ODD and various oppositional disorders. You no longer need to come to me for guidance – I give all the knowledge and experience here in videos that you can purchase right now.
And this is what parents who have gone through my guidance say about me.
Here is what one of the mothers wrote to me after about 3 meetings we had:
Dear Elisheva
On Shabbat, we had a chance to sit a bit with the extended family and talk and share
We told them everything we went through with Yair and how we were a second away from giving him psychiatric medication
And how God sent you into our lives and, thank God, saved us and our dear and good child...
I have immense gratitude towards you even though we are in the middle of a process and will, God willing, continue to meet
I want to thank you for saving our lives, literally!!!
That you and your husband (because it all started with an article he wrote about the effects of Risperdal) had the merit of being the good messengers who left our child in our hands and under our control before, God forbid, we almost handed him over to the forces of evil.
That you taught and are still teaching us how to trust ourselves, how not to give up, how not to give up on what is most precious to us because it is hard.
And how to cope when it's hard because God trusted us when He gave us this soul
And if He trusted us... why shouldn't we trust ourselves?
I had to share with you what is on my heart
Even though usually such letters are written at the end
While we haven't finished yet but, God willing, are happy and grateful for the journey
Elisheva, take me to the videos
If you haven't had a chance to get to know me yet:
Elisheva Levy
I am Elisheva Levy, married to Matan and a mother of 6 children.
I came to the entire therapeutic world in a not-so-conventional way. Although I am an academic, I was involved in education, and I still work as an operator in movement and music for early childhood. I came to the therapeutic world through emotional therapy that I underwent myself. Later, I also moved on to treating others using the unique method I was treated with myself. Later, I also learned drawing diagnosis, which enriched and expanded my possibilities to help people and also children.
So how did I get into therapy and guidance for children with behavioral problems?
I treated people and I also treated children, and later on, I also diagnosed children's drawings whom I couldn't treat and guided the parents according to the drawing. Children with severe behavioral problems also came to me. And I always diagnosed according to the drawing and provided the appropriate solution. More than once, children who were taking strong psychiatric drugs came to me for diagnosis. In some cases, there was nothing to be done because there was no person before me but a kind of robot managed by the chemicals of the drugs. And by the way, I saw this very clearly in the child's drawing that I diagnosed.
The straw that broke the camel's back was a girl, the daughter of one of my husband's patients, who came for me to diagnose her based on her drawing. The girl was diagnosed with severe behavioral problems and as a result, was taking heavy antipsychotic psychiatric drugs. The case was already hopeless. It was too late to fix. Matan, my husband, was very affected by all this. The girl's situation touched his heart deeply, and he sat down and wrote an article about the devastating effect of antipsychotic drugs on children. He wrote this article with tears and a lot of pain. What he said to himself was: "If I can't help here, at least I will prevent this damage from happening to other people."
Following the article my husband wrote, a wave of inquiries came from parents of children with behavioral problems who were also offered to take antipsychotic drugs. Matan forwarded the inquiries to me, and I diagnosed the child according to the drawing and gave the appropriate response to the parents. Over time, I gained a lot of experience until I no longer needed the child's drawing and knew how to provide the solution based on what the parents told me.
I am now giving all of this in a comprehensive and concise video series
And all this at an introductory price of only 197$
Elisheva, take me to the videos
What do the videos contain?
It's about an hour and a half divided into 43 short but very comprehensive videos. The videos will lead you step by step to the result: a vibrant, happy child with self-discipline. I have tried to be very focused and give you everything you need in the best way I can. But if you still have questions, you can comment at the bottom of the page and I will try to answer as soon as possible.
Here is a brief breakdown of the content of the 43 videos
Chapter One: What to do when the child has an outburst. In this chapter, I will explain what to do when the child has an outburst and, of course, what not to do.
Video 1: What not to do when the child has an outburst.
Video 2: What's wrong with my reaction?
Video 3: Will a hug help?
Video 4: What the child really needs when having an outburst.
Video 5: Demonstration of a correct response.
Chapter Two: What is needed to react correctly to my child
This chapter contains 7 videos in which I explain the two things that are critical for a correct response.
Later, I explain the third thing that can ruin everything even if your response is the most correct in the world.
Chapter Three: How to set an effective boundary for your child
This chapter includes 5 videos where I talk about the 4 things without which the boundary I set for the child is not a truly effective boundary.
And there is a special video that explains how to relate to teenagers.
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Chapter Four: Every behavior has a consequence
In this chapter of 10 videos, I detail the 4 critical things that should be a consequence of our child's unwanted behavior.
I provide many examples for both children and teenagers so you can apply what I say in your own home.
Chapter Five: Why am I not succeeding?
This is a very important chapter. I give 4 reasons why it's not working for me and of course, elaborate with many examples. Later, I also address in a separate video what to do when the child has anxiety.
The chapter includes 7 videos
Chapter 6: Managing a conversation with the child:
How to have an effective conversation with our child and also what to do when the child is nagging
I explain everything in six concise videos that will lead you to a good and beneficial dialogue with your child.
Chapter 7: How to build a positive relationship with our child
In 3 videos, I also explain how to build a positive relationship with the child. After you have set boundaries correctly and the child is back on track and becoming self-disciplined. But that's not enough. We want to build a good relationship with our child. I explain in 3 concise and important videos how to achieve a good relationship with our child.
New Chapter - Practical Examples
This is a written chapter with a variety of detailed examples of application in specific cases. For example, what happens if it seems to us that the problems are only at school, or what to do when the child does not want to sleep alone. A case story about a girl who thinks she looks fat and therefore doesn't come to school – what to do? Maybe it's anxiety after all? And a variety of other detailed and organized examples. As of now, 4 examples, the fifth is on its way.
Elisheva, take me to the videos
I'm interested in scheduling a meeting with you, where do you see clients and what are the details?
Our address is 8 Aviad St, Jerusalem. And the meeting can also be done via video call. elisheva is an english speaker so the meeting could be done in english, but elisheva will speak in hebrew. The phone number to schedule a meeting is +972523262297.
I usually do parent counseling sessions only after you have gone through all the videos and started implementing them, so if a little more help is needed, I am happy to assist. If you still find it difficult to go through the videos and you want to hear everything from me in a face-to-face meeting, you can schedule a meeting with me after which you will receive a detailed summary. The cost of such a meeting is 800 NIS because such a meeting usually lasts longer than a regular meeting and also requires much more work on a detailed summary.
If you have already seen the videos or have had the first meeting with me and need reinforcement or treatment with our unique method that will help you implement what I say in the videos. And by the way, results are usually seen after a couple of treatments.
In this case, a first session will cost 297$ and each subsequent session only 247$
Are your videos also suitable for teenagers?
Absolutely yes. In the videos, I give different examples for both teenagers and young children.
I have an internet filter, can you send it to me by email?
Absolutely yes. If you have any kind of internet filter like Netspark or Etrog etc., send us a reply email after receiving the receipt and we will happily send you all the videos as an email attachment.
Elisheva, take me to the videos
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